How To Be A Better Lover

April 28, 2019

How To Be A Better Lover

Because there's always room for improvement.

It’s not uncommon to wonder if your performance in the bedroom is at its peak.

Whether sleeping with your partner means literally just sleeping or the sex is steamy, there are always ways to turn up the temperature in the bedroom. Strengthening your sex skills may seem daunting at first but there are easy ways to become a better lover.

Here are three simple hacks to turn sex from yawn to yes, yes, YES!

Love yourself first

Ladies, it’s time to whip out the old vibrator. Masturbating is the perfect way to explore your pleasure points and discover exactly what you like. Once you know what feels good, it becomes much easier to communicate this to a partner. Using a vibrator can help women to increase libido and blood flow, leading to a stronger sex drive. If you don’t have one, it’s well worth looking into. It’s an investment in self-love AND your sex life.

Curiosity is key  

If you’re looking for ways to spice up your sex life the first step is having an open mind. Curiosity is important in exploring pleasure and discovering what feels good for you and your partner. Consider watching porn together or bringing sex toys into the bedroom for some kinky couples play. Ask your partner about any fantasies they may gave and share your own but do so without judgement. Being open about ways to change up your sex life is essential. Be open with your partner and you’ll find the inspiration you need to make sex, well, sexy!  

Comparison is the thief of orgasm

Media puts a lot of pressure on couples by presenting highly processed replications of what sex is ‘supposed’ to look like. Sex is so individualistic that reproducing a sex scene or a move you saw in porn may not be the right way to increase pleasure in the bedroom. Relating to your partner and sharing open communication is often the best way to be a better lover. Share your concerns with each other and just have fun. Don’t compare your performance to porn or worry about what it looks like. After all, sex is nothing like the movies.

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